Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Dimes

    For two days I had been finding dimes all over the place.  I had found two dimes in the morning before I headed to the coffee shop.  A woman came out the café holding a drink in each hand.  She said that there was a dime on the ground and I should pick it up.  I picked it up and tossed it in the tip jar.  When I heard the coin clink into the jar I thought about how strange it was to find so many dimes lately. Then I thought about my Grandpa who had just passed away two days earlier all the way across the country in New York.  
    Grandpa was 96 when he passed away.  I do not think I can write about how important Grandpa was in my life.  He and Grandma never missed a tea party, horse show, graduation, surf contest, holiday, birthday, heart break...almost every great memory I have of growing up they were in it. 

The great Grandpa Houdini mystifying one of my birthday parties
     Grandpa always had a twinkle in his eye and a laugh to share except when he was bitching out some waiter or hotel clerk.  Loosing him at such an old age didn't bring me comfort.  I wanted him to live through my whole life so I would never have to lose him.
   The following week, when I was at work, I thought about all the dimes that had I found and wondered if it meant anything.  I decided to google it.  It turned out that there were pages of links related to finding dimes after someone very close to you passes away.  It was described as a paranormal phenomena that happens when a loved one passes.  It is thought that they are sending you a message from the other side.  There are personal stories, poems, religious discussions, books based on the phenomena and there is even a Facebook page about it.  I kicked myself for not saving all but two of dimes. 
     I called my Mom and sister, Katy, to tell them about the dimes from Grandpa.  They thought that was so cool.  I wished that I had three dimes so I could send them each one and we could all have one.  I had not found any dimes for a few days so I asked Grandpa to send me just one more.  Days passed and no dimes.  I decided that I would send the two dimes I had to Mom and Katy.  I was happy enough with having the magic of finding them.  That night, as I was getting ready for bed, I found one dime sitting right in the middle of my bedspread.  Thank you Grandpa.  I miss you and Grandma so much and love you even more.
Grandpa and me breaking it down!

 

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8 comments:

  1. I am sorry you lost the physical Grandpa... but you are Never EVER going to lose the REAL Grandpa. He is in your heart and soul and Spirit.. Forever.

    Never doubt the messages "There are more things in Heaven and Earth.........."

    Love and HUGSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
    Pam

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  2. Beautiful! I think about my grandparents every day - they only leave you physically, they'll be in your heart forever.

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  3. Rachel wrote: "Love this blog! Such sweet thoughts about your grandpa"

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  4. Katy wrote: "Great blog this week, written by my talented sister Margaret Hague about our recent loss

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  5. Tricia wrote: "Oh, this is so lovely! Your grandparents are wonderful loving souls! I'm glad to have known them! Hugs and ALL of my love to you all!!

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  6. Wow that's amazing you found a third dime in your bed. Papa loved you dearly for you were his Marguerite
    Love aunt k

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  7. Great essay
    xo Linda

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  8. That was a great one, Margaret!
    Lisa K. Hansen

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