Ears of a not relaxed Belgian. |
I continued to be calm and she kept trying her hardest to be calm. Eventually, she quieted a little bit seeing that her friend horse, Syria, wasn't bothered by the scene around her. It was a relief to be on her instead of walking beside all 2000 pounds of her...kind of. I had to keep my focus on telling her that she was fine and nothing was going to happen to her. Unlike 99% of my rides where I get to space out and sight see on Autumn's back, I had to be there for her every hoof step of the way. As we reached the top of a steep dune I knew Autumn wanted me to get off and lead her down so she could follow behind me. She followed me down to the river at which point Autumn took a deep breath. Her marble hard muscles relaxed and the sharpness in her eyes softened back brown. Her deep breath was contagious and I found myself ready to get back in the saddle. I climbed aboard and Autumn kicked back into my personal tour guide. She splashed her way into the ocean and stopped to watch the seagulls get snatched away by the rambunctious wind.
These are the ears of a much more relaxed Belgian |
As Autumn pushed us through the winds I thought about how crappy the start of our ride was. As I thought about it, I realized that I wasn't giving her any credit. From the first second we turned down the dune path she was visibly scared and nervous. She had an hour of opportunities back in the dunes to run me over, bolt, buck me off or to snap out of my hands and run for the trailer. She never did. When something caused her to jump out of her boots she was able to maintain enough control to spook right in place and not run over the top of me. She let me know when she wanted me to get off her so she could follow behind me. I have to hand it to her, she really kept it together as best she could. Walking with the wind on our backs next to the familiar rumble of the sea I think we both appreciated being there together for each other.
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My first read of your blog. Very good work. It almost made me feel I was there with you. Mid-June will be Ben's first beach trip. We've been camping close (2 to 3 hour ride one way)but haven't made it out that far yet....there are too many good trails & too much to see closer to campsites.
ReplyDeleteLoved the photos. Its a learning curve isnt it. You always have to ask yourself who was there for whom. I say it again.. they teach us... we... are their Mission.
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Thanks for reminding me of the partnership we form with our horse. It's all about trust.
ReplyDeleteYou are always so perceptive with Autumn and with your thoughts you put down on paper. It's nice to know that Autumn takes care of you to. Thanks for the awesome blog.
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ReplyDeleteAgain, I have to say how much I love your prose. Your descriptions are so 'painterly' and loving that I find myself back on Clam Beach again. Here's to you, Cindy, Autumn, and Syria!
I always love to read your essays. . .especially the ones from excursions on the beach as I have been there with you and Andrea and Cindy and your horses. Horses are like other animals - cats, dogs,even people - with support and love they are able to cooperate, work through their fear and trust that you will see them through whatever is going on.
ReplyDeleteKeep on writing - I don't always get the chance to comment on each essay, but I read them all!
See you (and Casey, too, I hope) in CA!
xo Linda
Beautifully written. Thank you for sharing your experience. Cindy L.
ReplyDeleteRosemary wrote: "Marvelous! And your pictures suit your words--or maybe the other way around."
ReplyDeleteJon wrote: "Great read. Funny how the "big horses" politely let you know what you need to do, and when to do it. I honestly beleive that the big guys think things through before they make a bad move."
ReplyDeleteWhat a Beautiful story. It seems the two of have a communication that does not have to be spoken. Karen
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